Wednesday, 29 January 2025

SOME UNWRITTEN SOCIAL RULES EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW!!!

1. DO NOT TALK TO SOMEONE IN THE WASHROOM WHEN THEY ARE BUSY. NOT EVERYONE IS COMFORTABLE WITH MULTITASKING IN THOSE AREAS.

2. DO NOT CALL SOMEONE REPEATEDLY UNLESS SOMETHING IS ABSOLUTELY URGENT. THE PERSON MIGHT BE PUTTING A CHILD TO SLEEP, STUDYING AT THE LIBRARY, ON THE CALL WITH A CLIENT OR DOING SOMETHING. TEXT MESSAGE OR RECORD A VOICEMAIL AND WAIT.

3. ALWAYS SEND THE FULL MESSAGE WHEN CHATTING WITH SOMEONE (ESPECIALLY AT WORK). DO NOT SAY “HELLO” WITH NOTHING FOLLOWING IT IN YOUR TEXT MESSAGE. IT IS POINTLESS AND VERY ANNOYING.

4. NEVER GO TO SOMEONE’S PLACE UNINVITED OR WITHOUT LETTING THEM KNOW YOU ARE PASSING BY IN ADVANCE. PEOPLE MIGHT BE UNPREPARED TO MEET YOU, BUT WILL FEEL GUILTY IF THEY REFUSE TO LET YOU IN.

5. WHEN TALKING TO SOMEONE ON THE PHONE, WITH A SPEAKER ON AND OTHER PEOPLE AROUND, ALWAYS TELL THE PERSON THAT OTHERS CAN HEAR THEM. THEY MIGHT HAVE SOME INFORMATION TO SHARE THAT THEY DON’T WANT OTHERS TO KNOW.


HOW TO APPROACH LIFE!!!

1. A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY PROJECTING, DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY.

2. CHANNEL YOUR ENERGY INTO DOING THINGS THAT’LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD.

3. IT’S EASY TO BLAME PEOPLE FOR YOUR UNHAPPINESS, BUT ONLY YOU’RE IN CONTROL OF YOUR REALITY, NOT PEOPLE.

4. BUILD YOUR STYLE FROM THE GROUND UP.

5. MEASURE YOURSELF BY WHO YOU’RE ON YOUR HARDEST DAYS.

6. YOUR IDEAS ARE LITERALLY POINTLESS IF YOU DO NOTHING WITH THEM. EVERYONE HAS IDEAS ALL THE TIME.

7. MEASURE YOUR LIFE IN TERMS OF FREEDOM, NOT MONEY.

8. SELF REFLECTION IS A MUST ON A REGULAR BASIS, SINCE MOST OF YOUR THOUGHTS & ACTIONS ARE UNCONSCIOUS.

9. ONE MUST ALWAYS REMEMBER TO CHERISH IT NOT ONLY IN REFLECTION,BUT ALSO IN THE MOMENT ITSELF.


LESSONS PEOPLE LEARN AFTER BREAKUP!!!

1. PEOPLE ARE ONLY INSECURE WHEN THEY KNOW THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER DESERVES SOMEONE BETTER.

2. YOU CAN'T CONVINCE SOMEONE TO KEEP LOVING YOU. IT'S ON THEM.

3. IF YOU AREN'T A PRIORITY NOW, YOU NEVER WILL BE.

4. THE LONGER YOU ENTERTAIN CHAOS, THE LONGER YOU POSTPONE PEACE.

5. THEY CAN HATE YOU AND CAN’T NAME ONE THING YOU DID.

6. DON'T STAY WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU SEE THE POTENTIAL IN THEM BUT THEY AREN'T MEETING YOU WHERE YOU'RE AT NOW.

7. THE PERSON WHO WANTS THE RELATIONSHIP THE LEAST HAS THE MOST POWER.

8. SOMEONE CAN BE A GREAT PERSON AND A GOOD PARTNER BUT STILL NOT BE THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU.


SOME WEIRD PSYCHOLOGY TRICK!!!

1. TO UNDERSTAND A PERSON, OBSERVE HIS/HER PARENTS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX.

A PERSON'S ABILITY TO LOVE COMES FROM PARENTS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, AND DISCIPLINE COMES FROM SAME-SEX PARENTS.

2. DON'T MAKE ANY DECISIONS WHEN YOU'RE IN TEARS, THE LESS YOU TALK WHEN YOUR EMOTIONS ARE NEGATIVE, THE BETTER.

3. WHEN A PERSON AGREES TO YOUR FIRST REQUEST, THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE THAT THEY WILL AGREE TO THE SECOND.

4. YOU WON'T BE DEPRESSED WHEN YOU RUN.


11 THINGS THAT YOU CAN DO TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE!!!

1. STOP PLEASING PEOPLE. YOU ARE NOT A DOG AND THEY ARE NOT YOUR BOSS.

2. ACCEPT THAT WHATEVER YOU FEEL CAN’T BE RIGHT ALL THE TIME.

3. LET GO OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS. TALK TO YOUR LOVED ONES AND BE CALM.

4. LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY. BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE WILL LOVE YOU FOR FREE.

5. NO OVERTHINKING: YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST BY THINKING ABOUT IT, AND YOU CAN'T SHAPE THE FUTURE BY OVERTHINKING IT. GIVE IT YOUR BEST.

6. BE SELFISH: I DON'T THINK BEING SELFISH IS A BAD THING TO DO WHEN IT'S NECESSARY. MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF.

7. FORGIVENESS: IF SOMEONE OR SOMETHING HAS HURT YOU, FORGIVE THEM. IT'S ALL RIGHT. DON'T GO TO BED IN A BAD MOOD.

8. DON’T EXPEND YOUR ENERGY TRYING TO CONTROL OTHERS. FOCUS ON YOURSELF.

9. DIRECT YOUR FOCUS ON WHAT YOU HAVE AND BE GRATEFUL FOR IT.

10. HOBBIES: LEARN SOMETHING NEW THAT YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO LEARN BUT HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO.APPRECIATE: YOU'VE DONE A FANTASTIC JOB. TAKE TIME TO APPRECIATE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE. DON'T MAKE COMPARISONS.

11. MAINTAIN GOOD HABITS. CONTROL YOUR LIFE BEFORE IT STARTS CONTROLLING YOU.


SOME SAD TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE!!!

1 EVERYONE YOU LOVE, CARE FOR, OR HATE WILL DIE SOMEDAY.

2 WE FIND OUT PEOPLE’S TRUE COLORS WHEN WE ARE NO LONGER USEFUL TO THEM.

3 TRUST IS EASY TO BREAK, EASY TO LOSE, BUT HARD TO EVER GET BACK.

4 IT’S BETTER TO BE ALONE THAN TO BE WITH THE WRONG ONE.

5 ALL PROMISES ARE NOT MEANT TO BE FULFILLED.

6 YOUR PAIN ISN’T SPECIAL; IT’S JUST PART OF LIFE AND NO ONE CARES.

7 BEING PERFECT IS IMPOSSIBLE BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN DEFINITION OF PERFECTION.

8 EVERYONE IS SELFISH AND SO ARE YOU; WE ALL FOCUS ON WHAT WE WANT WHILE IGNORING OTHERS WHO NEED US


THE HARDEST TRUTH OF LIFE!!!

1 PEOPLE WANT TO SEE YOU SUCCEED… BUT NOT MORE THAN THEM.

2 A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED. THE REVERSE IS TRUE, IF YOU GET WHAT I MEAN.

3 THE WAY YOU ARE BROUGHT UP CONTRIBUTES ABOUT 70% TO THE PERSON YOU GROW UP TO BE. UNFORTUNATELY WE DONT GET TO CHOOSE OUR PARENTS.

4 GENUINE LOVE IS RARE, IF YOU STUMBLE UPON IT CHERISH IT.

5 NOBODY WILL DIE FOR YOU. YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN SO MAN UP.

6 LIFE IS SO UNFAIR BUT IT IS STILL BEAUTIFUL.

7 BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE.

8 GROWING UP COMES WITH MORE RESPONSIBILITIES, THUS LIFE GETS EVEN HARDER AS YOU GROW.

9 LIFE IS A JOURNEY WITH AN UNKNOWN DESTINATION. YOU ONLY CROSS THE BRIDGE WHEN YOU GET THERE… SOMETIMES YOU ARE NOT EVEN SURE WHETHER THE BRIDGE IS THERE OR NOT. LIVE TODAY TOMORROW IS NOT PROMISED.