HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARENESS!!!

1. SMILE AT ADVERSITY. SEEKING OUT SYMPATHY FOR YOUR WOES WILL DO NOTHING FOR YOU.

2. LEARN EVEN FROM PEOPLE YOU DISLIKE.

3. YOU MUST ADDRESS YOUR SHYNESS & FEAR OF REJECTION.

4. DON’T GIVE OWNERSHIP OF YOURSELF TO YOUR EMOTIONS.

5. IF THIS LIFE WERE TO END TODAY, WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO SAY YOU LIVED A GOOD ONE? IF NOT, FIGURE OUT WHY NOT & SET ABOUT TO FIX THIS, FOR TOMORROW’S NOT GUARANTEED FOR ANY OF US. TAKE THE TIME TO CLARIFY WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE. THAT’S THE SHORTCUT.

6. ACT WITH CERTAINTY . ACT WITH COMMITMENT. ACT WITH FOCUS . LET YOURSELF FULLY SHINE.

7. WE’VE HABITS THAT HAVE BEEN CREATED & CEMENTED WITHIN US OVER YEARS, MANY OF WHICH HINDER OUR JOURNEY TO SELF-IMPROVEMENT. RECOGNIZING & IDENTIFYING THESE IS THE KEY.

8. THE BEST INDICATOR OF ONE’S INTELLIGENCE IS THEIR ABILITY TO CHANGE.

9. MASKING YOUR ISSUES WITH DENIAL OR SUBSTANCES MAY HIDE THEM FOR THE SHORT TERM, BUT WILL ONLY AMPLIFY THEM LONG TERM. FACE YOUR FEARS.

10. TACKLE YOUR INSECURITIES. LIVE YOUR LIFE.

SOME DOUBLE EDGED TRUTHS OF LIFE!!!

1. IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW HARD, YOU WORK FOR A PARTICULAR ORGANIZATION, YOU CAN ONLY MANAGE TO LIVE A NORMAL LIFE. YOUR CHANCES OF BECOMING A MILLIONAIRE IS VERY LOW AND YOU ALSO HAVE LESS FREEDOM.

2. DON’T WAIT UNTIL RETIREMENT BEFORE YOU TRAVEL THE WORLD. TRUTH IS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT GET TO SEE A LOT WHEN YOU GROW OLD.

3. YOU DO NOT NEED TO BLAME ANYBODY IN LIFE BECAUSE WE ALL AT LEAST MADE CHOICES. HENCE, THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICE.

4. ACQUIRING A LOT OF SKILLS IS VERY IMPORTANT IN LIFE, IT MIGHT BE FOREIGN LANGUAGES, PHOTOGRAPHY ETC…

5. THOUGHTS OF MALICE, ENVY, DISAPPOINTMENT, DESPONDENCY, ROB THE BODY OF ITS HEALTH AND GRACE.

6. NO PROJECT IS COMPLETED UNTIL ITS OBJECTIVES HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED.

7. AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT INDEPENDENT, PEOPLE OPINION WILL STILL MATTER A LOT IN YOUR LIFE.

8. MANY PEOPLE KEEP SAYING LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL, BUT WITH MY EXPERIENCE IN LIFE. LOVE IS VERY CONDITIONAL. SO BARGAIN WISELY.

9. THE ONLY REASON WHY WE ALL CANNOT MAKE EVERY IMPORTANT DECISION THAT WILL LEAD US TO SUCCESS IS THAT OF FEAR OF FAILURE. ‘’THERE IS ONE THING THAT MAKES A DREAM IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE, THE FEAR OF FAILURE.’’

10. WHEN WE STRIVE TO BECOME BETTER THAN WE ARE, EVERYTHING AROUND US BECOMES BETTER, TOO.

SOME OF THE MOST AWESOME PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTS!!!

1. HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH A WOMAN GIVES MAN IMPROVED MENTAL STRENGTH.

2. THE LARGER YOUR SIGNATURE, THE LARGER YOUR SELF-ESTEEM.

3. CREATIVE PEOPLE TEND TO GET BORED EASILY.

4. PEOPLE WHO LISTEN TO MORE THAN ONE GENRE OF MUSIC TEND TO BE SMARTER AND MORE CREATIVE.

5. ONCE YOU FALL IN LOVE, THERE IS NO GOING BACK TO BEING FRIENDS AGAIN.

6. IF YOU CAN’T STOP YOUR STREAM OF THOUGHTS AT NIGHT, GET UP AND WRITE THEM DOWN. THIS WILL SET YOUR MIND AT EASE SO YOU CAN SLEEP.

7. IF YOU ANNOUNCE YOUR GOALS TO OTHERS YOU'RE LESS LIKELY TO SUCCEED.

8. SOME OF US ARE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF BEING TOO HAPPY BECAUSE OF THE FEAR THAT SOMETHING TRAGIC MIGHT HAPPEN NEXT.

9. THE LONGER YOU HIDE YOUR FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE, THE HARDER YOU FALL FOR THAT PERSON.

10. WHEN A GROUP OF PEOPLE LAUGHS, EACH MEMBER OF THE GROUP WILL INSTINCTIVELY LOOK AT THE PERSON THEY FEEL CLOSEST TO.

11. GOOD LIARS ARE GOOD AT DETECTING OTHER PEOPLE’S LIES.

SOME HARDEST TRUTH OF LIFE!!!

1. FAKE PEOPLE ARE LOVED MORE.

2. RESERVATION SYSTEM IS KILLING THE DEVELOPMENT OF INDIA.

3. BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDS. YOU NEVER KNOW HOW MANY TIMES IT KEEPS REPEATING IN SOMEONE'S MIND.

4. ALL RELATIVES DON'T THINK OF YOUR GOODWILL.

5. PEOPLE LOOK SO DIFFERENT ONCE YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THEM ANYMORE. YOU BEGIN TO NOTICE HOW “ORDINARY” THEY ARE.

6. HOW YOU'RE TREATED IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW MUCH YOU LIKE SOMEONE.

7. THE BIGGEST COMMUNICATION PROBLEM IS THAT WE DON'T LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND. WE LISTEN TO REPLY AND REACT.

8. ALWAYS LEAVE PEOPLE BETTER THAN YOU FOUND THEM.

9. NO ONE THINKS GOOD FOR YOU EXCEPT YOUR PARENTS. I REPEAT, NO ONE!

10. VERY FEW FRIENDS ARE HAPPY WITH YOUR SUCCESS. MOST OF YOUR BFFS LEAVE YOU. “NO FOREVER!”

11. MOST OF THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIPS HAVE NO FUTURE. THEY ARE MADE TO BREAK UP ONE DAY.

12. EVERYONE HAS FEELINGS WHICH ARE HARD TO HIDE BUT DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS.

13. WE ARE GETTING ADDICTED TO THE INTERNET DAY BY DAY!

14. IT'S VERY MANIPULATIVE THAT OUR ANGRY SIDE IS ALWAYS SEEN AS OUR “TRUE COLOURS”, AS IF WHEN WE ARE HAPPY AND BEING KIND, WE'RE BEING FAKE.

15. MARRIAGES ARE NOT ALWAYS HAPPY.

SOME UNWRITTEN SOCIAL RULES EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW!!!

1. DO NOT TALK TO SOMEONE IN THE WASHROOM WHEN THEY ARE BUSY. NOT EVERYONE IS COMFORTABLE WITH MULTITASKING IN THOSE AREAS.

2. DO NOT CALL SOMEONE REPEATEDLY UNLESS SOMETHING IS ABSOLUTELY URGENT. THE PERSON MIGHT BE PUTTING A CHILD TO SLEEP, STUDYING AT THE LIBRARY, ON THE CALL WITH A CLIENT OR DOING SOMETHING. TEXT MESSAGE OR RECORD A VOICEMAIL AND WAIT.

3. ALWAYS SEND THE FULL MESSAGE WHEN CHATTING WITH SOMEONE (ESPECIALLY AT WORK). DO NOT SAY “HELLO” WITH NOTHING FOLLOWING IT IN YOUR TEXT MESSAGE. IT IS POINTLESS AND VERY ANNOYING.

4. NEVER GO TO SOMEONE’S PLACE UNINVITED OR WITHOUT LETTING THEM KNOW YOU ARE PASSING BY IN ADVANCE. PEOPLE MIGHT BE UNPREPARED TO MEET YOU, BUT WILL FEEL GUILTY IF THEY REFUSE TO LET YOU IN.

5. WHEN TALKING TO SOMEONE ON THE PHONE, WITH A SPEAKER ON AND OTHER PEOPLE AROUND, ALWAYS TELL THE PERSON THAT OTHERS CAN HEAR THEM. THEY MIGHT HAVE SOME INFORMATION TO SHARE THAT THEY DON’T WANT OTHERS TO KNOW.

HOW TO APPROACH LIFE!!!

1. A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY PROJECTING, DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY.

2. CHANNEL YOUR ENERGY INTO DOING THINGS THAT’LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD.

3. IT’S EASY TO BLAME PEOPLE FOR YOUR UNHAPPINESS, BUT ONLY YOU’RE IN CONTROL OF YOUR REALITY, NOT PEOPLE.

4. BUILD YOUR STYLE FROM THE GROUND UP.

5. MEASURE YOURSELF BY WHO YOU’RE ON YOUR HARDEST DAYS.

6. YOUR IDEAS ARE LITERALLY POINTLESS IF YOU DO NOTHING WITH THEM. EVERYONE HAS IDEAS ALL THE TIME.

7. MEASURE YOUR LIFE IN TERMS OF FREEDOM, NOT MONEY.

8. SELF REFLECTION IS A MUST ON A REGULAR BASIS, SINCE MOST OF YOUR THOUGHTS & ACTIONS ARE UNCONSCIOUS.

9. ONE MUST ALWAYS REMEMBER TO CHERISH IT NOT ONLY IN REFLECTION,BUT ALSO IN THE MOMENT ITSELF.

LESSONS PEOPLE LEARN AFTER BREAKUP!!!

1. PEOPLE ARE ONLY INSECURE WHEN THEY KNOW THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER DESERVES SOMEONE BETTER.

2. YOU CAN'T CONVINCE SOMEONE TO KEEP LOVING YOU. IT'S ON THEM.

3. IF YOU AREN'T A PRIORITY NOW, YOU NEVER WILL BE.

4. THE LONGER YOU ENTERTAIN CHAOS, THE LONGER YOU POSTPONE PEACE.

5. THEY CAN HATE YOU AND CAN’T NAME ONE THING YOU DID.

6. DON'T STAY WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU SEE THE POTENTIAL IN THEM BUT THEY AREN'T MEETING YOU WHERE YOU'RE AT NOW.

7. THE PERSON WHO WANTS THE RELATIONSHIP THE LEAST HAS THE MOST POWER.

8. SOMEONE CAN BE A GREAT PERSON AND A GOOD PARTNER BUT STILL NOT BE THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU.